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saw that the other day, girls going to have a hard life ahead of her.
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Originally posted by SVT_Tactical SVT_Tactical wrote:

saw that the other day, girls going to have a hard life ahead of her.


Me too, I like his closing statement.
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Sad scenario is: He will now be put in jail for threatening the brat with a firearm. She will now own her mother with the threat to tell DHS that she will tell that the mother is not nice. While she invites all the scum of the area over for alcohol and drug party. When leaving one will get killed and that brats parents will sue the mother and have her put in jail because the kids had a drunken party at her house. You may come to the belief that no Judges have ever raised kids of there own. That's probably correct. They had a nanny raise their kid because they didn't want to bother.

Real Life is not right anymore.
Shucks! I'm getting bitter as I age.
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Originally posted by 3_tens 3_tens wrote:


Real Life is not right anymore.
Shucks! I'm getting bitter better as I age.
Fixed that for ya.
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Originally posted by SVT_Tactical SVT_Tactical wrote:

saw that the other day, girls going to have a hard life ahead of her.
I agree, if she doesn't start listening to her daddy it will be even harder! She needs to learn how to appreciate and respect her parents.
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Had this convo with a person the other day. All you "have" to provide a kid in your custody is shelter, food, water and medical care.

I'd strip that little bastards room down to an Army cot, sheet and blanket and feed her MRE's for the entire time she lived under my roof, or until she could appreciate the life of luxury she enjoyed. And when I'M satisfied, she could start earning her privileges back, one at a time.     

Not all kids these days are like "Hannah", but there sure are an ass ton of them out there running around these days.  
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I know i'm very young to say this but think of what our parents would have done to us had we done this....... who else here would be walking with a limp from them breaking our ass with a belt or switch? 

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Each generation gets a little more spoiled. It's just the nature of the beast, especially with technology booming (phones, computers, facebook etc etc). Kids, meaning teens and younger, certainly seem to feel much more entitled these days. 
 
Part of that problem, though are parents. Don't put all the blame on the kids. If parents would actually teach discipline and some structure before kids get to the teen years, you'd see less of this crap happening. I see parents letting kids get away with murder out in public, as im sure all of you do as well. It's asinine. Once you instill in a kid, that they can get what they want, when they want it, you're screwed. And much of the time, it doesn't bode well later in life. Kids have zero clue what hard work is these days. Not all, but the ratio is growing in the wrong direction.
 
Look i wasn't the perfect kid, but i had chores, push mowed about 10 acres worth of grass growing up (until my dad was able to get a 2nd rider, which was a God send Big Grin) and worked all through high school. I paid for gas and part of the insurance on my car. My parents were far from perfect, but they were tough when they needed to be, and gave me responsibility and space as i got older. The older i get the more i respect them and love them for the way they raised me. It was also nice to grow up in a 2 parent household, although my folks had plenty of moments, believe me. But they didn't just run at the first sign of trouble like so many do these days.
 
I'm very happy with where i'm at in life right now. 28, married to an amazing woman, homeowner, have a stable job. I served my country for 4 years and went to school for 2 years after i got out of the service. Much of that had to do with how i was raised by my folks to respect your elders and take pride in your work. The military furthered that as well.
 
I've got zero problem with what that fella did. It's his property, and he didn't put anyone in harms way. And if that can't get the attention of your kid, i don't know what will.
 
 
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Reading a couple new articles, they said police and CPS have been out to see him.  But he did not break any laws and CPS seemed fine with the home. 

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Originally posted by supertool73 supertool73 wrote:

Reading a couple new articles, they said police and CPS have been out to see him.  But he did not break any laws and CPS seemed fine with the home. 

If i were him i'd have told them to get the blank off my property or come back with a warrant.
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Originally posted by supertool73 supertool73 wrote:

Reading a couple new articles, they said police and CPS have been out to see him.  But he did not break any laws and CPS seemed fine with the home. 

 
Neither should have been out to see him. I read that and just shook my head. This country is getting incredibly politicaly correct and to some degrees weak minded. My dad spanked my brother and I growing up. It never crossed a certain line but it hurt and made a damn good point. If you did that nowadays you'd lose your kids.
 
I mean hell, kids are getting trophies for coming in LAST place in sports now. Where is the competitive drive in people?
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I got spanked and my butt kicked a number of time growing up.  Looking back, IMO that was good parenting.  I deserved it each and every time.  I learned from it as well.
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She will regret that one day if something ever happens to him
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Originally posted by shooter07 shooter07 wrote:

Originally posted by supertool73 supertool73 wrote:

Reading a couple new articles, they said police and CPS have been out to see him.  But he did not break any laws and CPS seemed fine with the home. 

 
Neither should have been out to see him. I read that and just shook my head. This country is getting incredibly politicaly correct and to some degrees weak minded. My dad spanked my brother and I growing up. It never crossed a certain line but it hurt and made a damn good point. If you did that nowadays you'd lose your kids.
 
I mean hell, kids are getting trophies for coming in LAST place in sports now. Where is the competitive drive in people?


So very true. PC is here to stay unfortunately.  
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thatta boy!  she needs licks with the branch she hand picks from the tree. Ungrateful and no longer spoiled I'm sure.
 
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My dad whooped me and I cannot say that I didnt deserve it each time. But after each spanking he would take me to get some ice cream.
 
That man paid for the lap top, paid for the software, paid for the .45 and the ammo.
Why is it politically incorrect to test out his exploding hollow points? Wink
 
....I got to where I would take a spanking to get ice cream haha Wink
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Originally posted by SVT_Tactical SVT_Tactical wrote:

I know i'm very young to say this but think of what our parents would have done to us had we done this....... who else here would be walking with a limp from them breaking our ass with a belt or switch? 



Dad farmed and had a 3xl hand that had callouses tougher than leather.  Knew how to use it too.
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Yee I remember a few spankings, some bare bottom!  Deserved them all.
 
I went threw something similar with my daughter.  It was better after her mother left and her and her brother couldn't play us off against each other.  they were 7 & 9 then.
 
At 15 my daughter got in with the wrong crowd at school and boy did they fill her head with self serving nonsense!  She made the mistake of threatening me with cops and CPS.  I threw her out of the house for  10 days!  (Had pre-arranged it with one of her girlfriend's parents who cared) so I knew she had a place to stay and was safe.  She was made to sleep in a basement bedroom by herself not in her girlfriends room.  I checked on her every day but she didn't know about it.  After 10 days I got a call from a very meek and subdued daughter asking if I would meet with her using the girls mom as mediator. (Wink)
Thank god she got the message and saw the light.  The difference in her attitude was tremendous, she dropped out of the peer group she had gotten in with.   Shortly there after she got a job as frycook at a local greasy spoon and worked there till she graduated highschool!
 
What a save! Yippee
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I don't blame that guy one bit.
 
What she needs is to sample life on her own for just a little while!  It's a very rude awakening to one who is used to life's little luxuries like.... PCs, Cellphones and excessive spending money.
 
I refused to provide my kids with cellphones and they hated me for it!  I did provide an 800 number to the house that they could call from ContUS!  If they wanted to text or chat with their friend in the next row at school they had to pay for it!
 
When my daughter did get her 1st cellphone her 1st bill was $129.00 and showed 1200 text messages.... she freaked and I quickly hid my smirk!!!!  I greatly enjoyed telling her....I told you so!
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I grew up with divorced parents with two totally different parenting styles. Dad was hard, and EFFECTIVE, and Mom was........uh, not so much. To all those who think spanking you kids, or disiplining them will make them hate you......... Exactly the opposite is true. My relationship with my mother is strained at best, and Dad is my rock, and best friend. Dad only spanked me 4 times in my life, but the point was taken. When I was very young, I wouldn't eat my dinner, and was spanked. When he was done, he told me to eat my dinner, and I said no. This continued through 4 spankings until my dinner was gone, and mom was crying. Dad got his respect from that day forward, and spent the time with me to build a good relationship. Mom was weak, and didn't have time in her "busy" life for me. It's still pretty much that way today. I'm a firm believer in disiplining your children young, and letting them know where they stand, and that they need to respect you, and everyone else. By the time they hit their teens, if you don't have a handle on them, and a good relationship, it's probably to late. I saw that video on facebook, and showed it to my kids. Now they don't think I'm so hard on them.
 
This guy is my hero! Right behind my Dad of course.
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Many kids these days don't have a freaking clue.  Everything is just handed to them on a silver platter IMO if a kid learns how to work early on the better off they will be. 

I had my own summer lawn mowing business from when I was 11 til I was 18.  I worked at a little gas station at 12 to 14.  I worked on a cattle ranch in the summers from 15 to 19.  I worked at a plumbing supply store for a couple winters when I was 16-18.  Did some logging for a summer when I was 21, and worked 30 to 40 hours per week at a bowling alley through college all the while taking 18 to 20 credits a semester.  All that never hurt me one bit.  And I still had time to spend with my family, friends, and do things I wanted to do.  
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By the time I was, like.... TWO YEARS OLD (!) my parents had taught me who was in charge.  No problem! I did the same with my kids.  They knew the word " NO" .  
 
I didn't get spanked much.  We didn't want to disappoint our parents!  We were good kids.  Spent my childhood working on the farm.  A pitchfork was meant to fill that old truck up with all that manure.  We didn't have a manure spreader.  I was the manure spreader!!  I took care of that farm. That farm looked like a National Park.  Then I grew up and moved away when I was nineteen.
 
Since then I have met people who have never seen a cow....or a shovel.....or a hammer.  I don't get it.
 
 
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